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The comments below are from real people who have engaged Derek to help them overcome real problems.
Names have been changed to protect client confidentiality.
Quantum Breakthrough™ Coaching
Dealing with emotional baggage
The problem:
Jess is a former Olympic finalist who felt totally blocked and asked Derek for help getting back into competition in a different sport. Whenever she visualised achieving her goal, she would burst into tears - not of happiness, of deep sadness. To her this was totally inexplicable. She felt under a constant stress, torn between a desire to compete again and an inability to get started and take the first steps. Already a fairly self-aware person, Jess recognised there was a real resistance within her own mind which had for years prevented her from resolving this herself, even though she was very motivated to sort things out.
The solution:
During the breakthrough, Jess was able to resolve some deeply buried painful memories. She realised that she viewed her previous sporting career as a total failure and massive disappointment, even though she had a won a Commonwealth Games medal and reached an Olympic final. She also realised that the same conflict was affecting her working life, holding her back from success with her own business. By the end of what was quite an emotional session, she felt much happier, calmer and deeply relieved.
The result:
Jess says: "I am a much happier person generally. I'm back competing again in my new sport and I feel that I am well on my way towards achieving my major goal.
I have a much greater sense of self-worth. I know now that I have achieved many successes in my life and I'm looking forward to achieving more in the future. I had always had a sense that I was carrying around some nasty emotional baggage which has now been resolved. What a relief!
Although we did not look at the financial side of my life during the session, I have noticed that I am more focused and committed to my business as well as to my sport. I just wish I'd committed to the Quantum Breakthrough session with Derek earlier. I was quite afraid of the emotions I knew were lurking under the surface and this made me very resistant to tackling the problem. I'm so glad I took the plunge and went through with it."
Overcoming fears
The problem:
Liz came to see Derek because she was scared of riding her horse. In fact, even though she loved her horse and was an experienced rider, her fear had become so extreme that she spent whole days at work worrying about riding, even sometimes being physically sick at the thought. She suffered from lack of sleep and would go the whole day without eating until she had ridden. It was very clear that Liz wanted to change; she had already spent a considerable amount on trying to overcome her fears through riding instruction, hypnosis, coaching and "all manner of pills and fluids". She had very low self-esteem and said she felt a failure.
The solution:
Derek says: "It was clear to me from the outset that this problem was not a question of riding skills since Liz had enjoyed her riding in earlier years. In the course of just 6 hours work together, Liz discovered the real root cause of the problem which related to some unpleasant experiences in her past. Her fear of riding was a symptom, not the real problem. With this new awareness, she then saw how the real issue was affecting other areas of her life. Once we had cleared the emotional attachments, she was able to make new decisions and change some behaviours which had been preventing her from overcoming her fears."
The result:
Liz says: " I feel relaxed. I'm less stressed and more at ease with myself. I realise now that it is OK to do what I want and I'm looking forward to riding this afternoon! I highly recommend Quantum Breakthrough to anyone who is looking for help. It was emotionally draining but a great success. Once again thank you so much for your time and patience with me."
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